We all have psychic abilities, just as we all can play a piano ~ albeit some are better than others. Everyone is naturally talented at something however we can also chose to develop and fine tune talents and skills. The individual who has decided to work giving psychic readings (whether naturally or via tutelage) has a heightened sense of sight, sound, hearing, sensing and instinct. Allowing them to be attuned to energies that are around them or their clients.
Psychic readings are tripartitie, meaning it is consists of the interaction of three energies. Those of the psychic medium; energies of the divine world (Spirit Guides, loved ones, etc) as well as your own. Which means that your energy can either help support or hinder the messages you receive.
An analogy of how the interaction works can be likened to the mechanics of a radio. The psychic, like an antenna, is able to receive electromagnetic energy. Energy passing by for the specific broadcasting station (their client) which they have tuned into receive for. However just as the radio energy waves can be blocked or interrupted (e.g. Radio Jammer) so too can the information the psychic receives for you.
In order for you to get the best out of your psychic reading there are steps you can take. Thus being open and not interfere or “jam” the information available for you.
Be well hydrated for your reading
Water and spiritual energy are like chocolate and milk, they compliment each other very nicely! When you are hydrated it allows your body, and energy, to be working at an optimum level. This support the connection, and flow of information, between you and the psychic.
Also when your psychic is a healer, there is an element of realignment and healing which will occur for you. The more hydrated you are, the more effective this healing energy will be.
Abstain from alcohol and drugs
Depending on how much you have drank, alcohol can stay in your system for for at least 10 hours, thus it is best not to have any alcoholic substance for at least 24 hours prior to your reading.
Most illicit drugs can stay in your system for up to four (4) days, with Cannabis it can be up to thirty (30) days, so to be on the safe side it is best to abstain from such substances for at least seven (7) days.
Alcohol and drugs not only affect your mind and body it also affects your energy field. Lowering your vibration as well as making it dark and murky. When your energy is vibrating at a lower frequency you may be more susceptible to mischievous energies which can skew the information being received.
Be present, calm and relaxed
Give yourself enough time to arrive for your appointment so that you arrive in a calm and relaxed manner. The worst thing you can do is walk into your session stressed and all over the place.
Even if it means you will be five minutes late, take a few minutes to breathe, centre yourself and ground your energy. This will allow you to be present and concentrating on the reasons you are at your session for.
Have healthy skepticism and remain open
I encourage a healthy dose skepticism, most probably because whilst I absolutely believe in what I do, I too can be somewhat sceptical. However healthy skepticism does not mean testing your psychic nor refraining from confirming information as this creates resistance and blocks for information to be received.
Personally I don’t like knowing information about my clients, if they begin to tell me something I politely ask them to stop so 1. they don’t influence the reading and 2. so they know the information I am receiving is from Spirit. However at times I do require my clients to place the information for me. The information I receive is spot on, it is just in my human form I can misplace or misinterpret the information and require my client to place it.
Recently I had two sisters come to see me (in separate sessions), sister #1’s session was good however sister #2’s was exceptional. What was the difference? Sister #1 was resistant to the messages as she (perhaps unconsciously) only wanted to hear certain things. However sister #2 was open to the information she was receiving.
It reinforced for me that a reading is not just dependant on my abilities and preparations, it is also dependant on the openness of the client.
Spirit will bring forth guidance and answers as to what they know you need, however this doesn’t mean that you can’t also have questions or topics you are wanting guidance on. Also those loved ones which want to come through, will find a way to come through, however we can also request whom we would like to speak with (noting it doesn’t always mean they will come through)
Whilst I encourage clients to be somewhat prepared, a person can also over prepare, which means they close themselves off to the information Spirit sees as important. Have an idea of whom you want to contact or topics/questions you would like guidance on yet also be open to what is being channelled for you.
Be aware of psychic amnesia
Psychic amnesia is when during a psychic reading information we know is temporarily forgotten. I’ve had many examples of clients who have been given information and said it doesn’t make sense, only for it to either later in the reading or when they get home.
Psychic amnesia occurs when a client is too focused on who or what they want to hear; if they are fearful of what the information may reveal; the have unhealthy level of skepticism; they are distracted or perhaps even awestruck.
Understand language / terminology differences
Words and phrases have different meanings to different people, so whilst I would never ask a client to accept something they can’t, also be aware that what meaning a word has for you may be different to what the psychic does. If needs be ask the client to give more information.
I have examples of where I have given a message which my client couldn’t resonate with, only for me to re-phrase it (effectively saying the same thing), for the client to understand and accept the message.
Know you have free will
We are born with free will, giving us the ability to make choices and this is extremely important when you receive information and guidance from Spirit.
An effective psychic reading will present empowering information to you which gives you choices. Ultimately it is up to you as to what information you accept and discard as well as to which pathway you decide is right for you.
A psychic reading can be a fun, rewarding, empowering and healing experience, which can also bring a sense of direction, focus and/or peace. When you follow some, if not all, these tips you can only enhance that experience.